· Is one drink never enough? · Loss of time from work due to drinking. · Depression or unhappiness due to drinking. · Drinking in order to cope with personal problems. · Drinking to overcome shyness. · Loss of interest in family and friends. · Loss of interest in activities which were once of interest. · Difficulty sleeping due to drinking. · Poor judgment. · Drinking outside of a social setting. · Showing up intoxicated in inappropriate settings. · Drinking to build self-confidence. · Mood fluctuations. · Developing health problems due to drinking. · Experiencing memory blackouts during or after drinking. · Usually drinking to the point of intoxication. · Feeling guilty about drinking. · Not fulfilling promises or obligations because of drinking. Common Traits Exhibited by an Alcohol Abuser When Confronted
· Denial. · Rationalizing to excuse the alcohol abuse. · Making excuses when promises and obligations are not fulfilled. · Blaming others for problems. · Manipulation. · Dependency. · Do you occasionally drink heavily after a disappointment, a quarrel, or when the boss or someone in a position of power over you gives you a hard time? · When you have trouble or feel under pressure, do you always drink more heavily than usual? · Have you noticed that you are able to handle more liquor than you did when you were first drinking? · Did you ever wake up on the "morning after" and discover that you could not remember part of the evening, even though your friends tell you that you did not "pass out?" · When drinking with other people, do you try to have a few extra drinks when others will not know it? · Are there certain occasions when you feel uncomfortable if alcohol is not available? · Have you recently noticed that when you begin drinking you are in more of a hurry to get the first drink than you used to be? · Do you sometimes feel a little guilty about your drinking? · Are you secretly irritated when your family or friends discuss your drinking? · Have you recently noticed an increase in the frequency of your memory "blackouts?” · Do you often find that you wish to continue drinking after your friends say they have had enough? · Do you usually have a reason for the occasions when you drink heavily? · When you are sober, do you often regret things you have done or said while drinking? · Have you tried switching brands or following different plans for controlling your drinking? · Have you often failed to keep the promises you have made to yourself about controlling or cutting down on your drinking? · Have you ever tried to control your drinking by making a change in jobs, or moving to a new location? · Do you try to avoid family or close friends while you are drinking? · Are you having an increasing number of financial, school, or work problems? · Do more people seem to be treating you unfairly without good reason? · Do you eat very little or irregularly when you are drinking? · Do you sometimes have the "shakes" in the morning and find that it helps to have a little drink? · Have you recently noticed that you cannot drink as much as you once did? · Do you sometimes stay drunk for several days at a time? · Do you sometimes feel very depressed and wonder whether life is worth living? · Sometimes after periods of drinking, do you see or hear things that aren't there? · Do you get terribly frightened after you have been drinking heavily?
